Sunday, September 5, 2010

Say Sorry.... and feel the difference!!!!

"SORRY" is such a small word.... then why do we hesitate to use it, especially in our relationships where we take everything for granted.
We'll say sorry to a complete stranger, even if it is for a triffle.... then why there is problem in saying this five lettered word to our own loved ones??????
This has been explained in psychology. Actually, Human mind works like that.
whenever we think of saying sorry to any loved one, feelings like self- respect and ego emerge from nowhere. and that makes a person feel depressed if he says sorry then.... so he decides not to say so.
But the case with a complete stranger is quite different... He is not known... so in majority of the cases we are laest concerned that what will he think... and moreover, none of us has that much time today to indulge into a useless brawl... so we say Sorry.
A study at Michigan State University has revealed that 55% of the individuals are hesitant to say sorry to their family... while only 35% are hesitant to say so to a complete stranger... Well, this proves my point.
Saying Sorry cannot degrade us in any way... We need to change our mindset... Believe me... this will make our relations with our family and friends more beautiful.......!!!!!